Singing for the Terrified: A Trauma-Informed Singing Retreat in Ontario
Wouldn’t you just love to SING YOUR HEART OUT?
Singing for the Terrified is a beginner-friendly, trauma-informed singing retreat for adults who have always wanted to sing but feel scared, shy, or self-conscious about using their voice. Held at the peaceful SEED Lodge in the Grey Highlands, this immersive three-day retreat weaves together singing, Kundalini yoga, breathwork, and psychotherapy to help you reconnect with your voice in a way that feels safe, supported, and deeply human.
This is not about talent, performance, or getting it “right.”
It’s about feeling safe enough to be heard—and discovering the joy that naturally follows.
A Singing Retreat for People Who Think They Can’t Sing But Secretly Want to
For many adults, the voice is the most vulnerable creative instrument we have. It carries our emotions, our history, and most importantly, our longing to be heard. Because of this, singing can often bring up fear, shame, or a sense of freezing long before it brings pleasure. Singing for the Terrified was created for people who love music but avoid using their own voice, who were once told to stop singing, who feel their throat tighten when asked to speak or sing in front of others, or who simply want to feel more confident expressing themselves out loud and in public.
You don’t need experience, training, or “talent.”
What’s required is only a willingness to show up and give yourself permission to explore your voice gently within a supportive community.
What Makes This Retreat Different
This is not a performance workshop, a choir, or a traditional vocal training intensive. Singing for the Terrified is a voice liberation retreat that works with the body and nervous system rather than pushing past fear. By combining trauma-informed singing practices with somatic awareness, breathwork, and psychotherapy, we create the conditions where the voice can emerge naturally. When the body feels safe, sound follows. When the voice is witnessed in a supportive community, confidence grows without force.
Singing & Voice Work
Gentle, beginner-friendly singing practices
Group singing without pressure or performance
Learning to trust and enjoy your natural voice
Singing as play, connection, and expression
What You’ll Experience
Kundalini Yoga & Breathwork
Practices to open the throat chakra, chest, and diaphragm
Releasing tension in the jaw, neck, and belly
Breath support for safe, sustainable sound
Nervous system regulation through movement, mantra, and meditation
Kundalini yoga is a precise system that combines movement, breath, mantra, and meditation to create specific nervous system and emotional shifts.
Psychotherapy & Somatic Inquiry
Understanding why singing and speaking can trigger fear or shutdown
Exploring where vocal inhibition lives in the body
Working gently with freeze, resistance, and self-criticism
Reclaiming your voice as agency, pleasure, and joy
Many adults who want to sing are not looking to perform—they are looking for safety. Singing is closely linked to the nervous system, and for people who have experienced stress or trauma, the vocal centre can shut down as a protective response. This retreat acknowledges that reality and works with it compassionately. You’ll be guided through experiences that allow fear, self-judgment, and emotional holding to soften at a pace that feels respectful and contained. Structure is offered without pressure, and expression is encouraged without comparison.
A Trauma-Informed Approach to Voice
Why Singing Is Healing
From both a clinical and somatic perspective, singing is one of the most natural and regulating things humans can do. It supports nervous system regulation, reduces anxiety and shame, allows emotions to move and be expressed, and fosters a sense of connection and belonging. You don’t need to fix your voice. You need to feel safe enough to use it—and this retreat is designed to help you do exactly that.
Retreat Details
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Format
3-Day / Weekend Intensive
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Schedule
Friday 4:00pm to Sunday @ noon
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Location
Grey Highlands, Ontario
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Insurance
*Psychotherapy receipts may be available (eligible plans only)
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Includes
Singing & voice workshops
Kundalini yoga & breathwork
Group psychotherapy & somatic inquiry*
Accommodation & shared vegetarian meals
SCHEDULE
(Subject to gentle adjustments to meet the needs of the group)
Friday – Arrival & Opening
2:00 PM – Arrival & settling in
Guests arrive, get oriented, unpack, and begin to unwind. Time to explore the grounds, enjoy the forest, or relax in the sauna.
4:00–6:00 PM – Dinner
A nourishing, shared meal to help everyone land and feel supported.
6:00–8:30 PM – Opening Circle & First Practice
The retreat officially begins with introductions, gentle Kundalini yoga, breathwork, and an introductory sounding practice. We begin to create safety in the body and gently open the voice together.
Saturday – Voice, Body & Expression
6:00–7:00 AM – Early Morning Pranayama & Movement
Optional early-morning breathwork and gentle movement to awaken the body and nervous system.
7:00–9:00 AM – Breakfast & Free Time
Breakfast followed by rest, journaling, walking the land, or sauna.
9:00 AM–12:00 PM – Kundalini Yoga & Music Session
A longer morning session combining Kundalini yoga, breathwork, and guided vocal exploration to open the throat, chest, and diaphragm.
12:00–2:00 PM – Lunch & Sauna
Time to eat, rest, sauna, and integrate the morning’s work.
2:00–4:00 PM – Music Improvisation & Singing in Nature
Playful and exploratory singing and improvisation, including singing outdoors and “singing to the trees,” allowing the voice to move freely in nature.
5:00–7:00 PM – Dinner & Rest
A spacious break for nourishment, quiet time, or connection.
7:00–9:00 PM – Evening Program: Mantra & Karaoke
An evening of mantra chanting, group singing, and lighthearted karaoke—always invitational, supportive, and pressure-free.
Sunday – Integration & Closing
6:00–7:00 AM – Morning Pranayama & Yoga
A grounding morning practice to support integration and presence.
7:00–9:00 AM – Breakfast & Sauna
Breakfast followed by sauna, packing, and quiet reflection.
9:00–11:30 AM – Kundalini Yoga & Music Integration Class
A final embodied session weaving together movement, breath, voice, and reflection—supporting confidence, resonance, and ease.
11:30 AM – Light Lunch & Closing Circle
A gentle closing, reflections, and send-off.
2:00 PM – Departure
Friday February 6 @ 2pm-Sunday, February 8th @ noon
Includes all meals and drinks throughout your stay.
This course is eligible for psychotherapy coverage in Ontario and Quebec.
COST:
Private Room
1249$
Semi-Private room
995$
Ensuite Room
1495$
No accommodation
750$
About your facilitators:
Esther Kalaba
Esther Kalaba is a psychotherapist and art therapist with over 20 years of experience working in the healing arts. A Kundalini yoga and breathwork teacher, her work centers on voice, breath, and authentic expression as pathways to self-knowledge and healing.
Following her own journey through thyroid cancer, Esther’s relationship to voice and communication deepened, shaping a practice devoted to helping others reclaim their voice—within themselves and in the world. She is the founder of People of the Prana and The SEED Lodge, where therapy, creativity, and embodiment meet.
Ma’amo Koba
Ma’amo Koba is a composer, producer, and deeply sensitive music teacher with a gift for helping people reconnect to their voices—especially those who believe they “can’t sing.” Trained across jazz, classical, and contemporary music, his work spans genres and worlds, but his heart lies in creating spaces where curiosity replaces fear and sound becomes play.
Through his gentle, intuitive teaching, Ma’amo helps participants soften self-judgment, listen inward, and discover the voice as a living, expressive instrument. His approach is less about performance and more about permission—inviting each person to sing from where they are, exactly as they are.
Frequently Asked Questions
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No. This retreat is specifically designed for people who believe they can’t sing or feel afraid of singing. No musical experience, training, or “good voice” is required. If you can breathe, you can participate.
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Yes. This retreat was created for people who feel fear, shame, or anxiety around singing. For many adults, the voice is deeply personal and closely tied to the nervous system. This is a gentle, trauma-informed environment where fear is expected, welcomed, and supported—rather than pushed away.
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That’s exactly who this retreat is for. Many participants arrive convinced they “can’t sing” and discover that once fear and tension soften, their voice naturally emerges. The focus is not on performance or perfection, but on safety, expression, and confidence.
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This retreat integrates singing with Kundalini yoga, breathwork, and psychotherapy. We work with the nervous system rather than forcing the voice open. Practices are designed to reduce overwhelm, support regulation, and gently release vocal inhibition through awareness instead of pressure. Fear may still arise when stepping outside your comfort zone—and we are here to process it together, safely.
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Yes. This is a therapeutic, trauma-informed retreat. Group psychotherapy and somatic inquiry are woven throughout the experience to help participants understand and release fear, shame, and vocal inhibition. The retreat is facilitated by a licensed psychotherapist.
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Yes. Portions of the retreat may be eligible for psychotherapy insurance coverage, depending on your provider. Receipts are provided by a licensed psychotherapist. We recommend checking with your insurer in advance.
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Yes. This retreat is valuable for both beginner and experienced singers. Trained vocalists often attend to uncover subtle emotional or nervous system blocks that limit vocal range, expression, or ease. Somatic voice work can support greater freedom, resonance, and confidence. People of all musical abilities attend this retreat.
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Absolutely. Many participants attend to improve their speaking voice, reduce throat tension, and feel more confident expressing themselves in groups, at work, or during difficult conversations. The practices support clearer, more grounded, and more embodied vocal expression.
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Each day includes a balanced mix of group singing and voice practices, Kundalini yoga and breathwork, psychotherapy-informed group inquiry, and time for rest, reflection, and nature. The schedule offers structure without overwhelm and includes spacious downtime for integration.
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Yes! You can attend if you have your own accommodation at a reduced rate. Meals are included.
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That’s normal—and expected. Singing can open emotional layers. The retreat is designed with choice, pacing, and nervous-system regulation in mind. Support is always available, and you are encouraged to move at your own pace.
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Item descThis retreat is for adults who feel anxious, blocked, or ashamed about singing, as well as creatives, therapists, teachers, helpers, and anyone longing to reclaim their voice safely and joyfully. No prior singing, yoga, or therapy experience is required.ription
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The retreat takes place at SEED Lodge, a rural creative-wellness retreat centre set on 56 acres of forest in Grey Highlands, Ontario. The natural environment is an integral part of nervous-system regulation and healing.
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Yes. The retreat is held in Grey Highlands, Ontario, a short drive from Blue Mountains, Collingwood, Thornbury, and Meaford. Full directions are provided after registration.
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Grey Highlands is approximately a 2 to 2.5 hour drive from Toronto, depending on traffic and season. Many guests carpool or turn the trip into a short getaway.
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Yes. This is a Friday–Sunday weekend intensive retreat in Ontario, making it accessible for participants traveling from Toronto, Southern Ontario, and beyond.
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The retreat is co-facilitated by Esther Kalaba, Registered Psychotherapist, art therapist, and Kundalini yoga teacher, and Mamo Koba, professional singer and music producer who leads the singing and voice work. Together, they create a safe, supportive container for vocal exploration.
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Group size is intentionally kept small to maintain safety, intimacy, and individualized attention.
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A full packing list will be sent after registration. In general, bring comfortable clothing for movement, warm layers for outdoor time, a journal, and an open, curious mindset. No instruments or special equipment are required.
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Yes. That’s actually the perfect place to begin. Fear is a natural response to trying something new or stepping outside your comfort zone. If you long to sing freely and feel more at home in your voice, this retreat is designed to support you exactly where you are.
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Yes. This retreat is ideal for people looking for Ontario wellness retreats, Grey Highlands retreats, creative retreats in Ontario, trauma-informed retreats, and nature-based healing experiences near the Blue Mountains.